The decision to choose cremation services can make you feel as if you are at a fork in the road, not knowing which way to go. You’re making a big decision. Do not worry. We will help you navigate through the waters of this decision with calm and compassion.
Let’s start by defining what cremation actually is. The basic idea behind cremation is that it offers an alternative method to the traditional burial. Through intense heat, the dead body can be reduced to ashes. You might think it’s simple. It’s not that simple.
You should first decide whether you are interested in a direct or a combined cremation. Direct cremation bypasses the service and moves straight into the cremation. Because it is simple, and because the cost is lower, this method of cremation has become popular. Addition of a memorial allows for the family and close friends to get together, celebrate and tell their stories.
The urns are the vessels in which cremated remains will be placed. What a wide variety of options exist! Everything from the traditional to the artistic is available for all tastes and budgets. Others choose to use biodegradable containers if their eco-friendly orientation is a priority.
Did you know that water cremation can be an environmentally-friendly alternative? Known as alkaline hydration, the method breaks down the dead body with water and not by fire. They claim it is gentler to Mother Earth than other traditional methods.
You ever considered spreading ashes around? This can be an extremely personal decision. Scattered remains can serve as a final farewell, regardless of whether they are scattered in the garden where you grew up or on top of a mountain. You should always make sure you check your local laws. There may be restrictions about the place where you scatter remains.
Let’s also discuss keepsakes. A small part of the ashes can be kept in jewelry and other items as a memento. These items serve to remind us of our loved ones, who are no longer with us physically but in spirit.
Cost is always the main consideration in making any decision. Because of the associated expenses, like caskets for burial or plots in cemeteries, cremation usually costs less. Prices vary depending on factors including location and services.
One important tip: Always ask questions! Funeral homes should be able to answer all questions about their services without any hidden charges. Transparency in these waters is crucial.
Support systems are important! During these difficult times, leaning on your friends or professional counselors can ease any emotional stress and help you make better decisions with the family.
This is your guide in choosing cremation with a little care, and maybe a bit of humor. No matter what you do, remember that your chosen path will pay homage to the loved one’s memories.